Since it is February and the "Love Month," most of my posts here will be of course about it. Love is a very amazing gift and not all are fortunate enough to find it. When you do however, here are some truths that you will come to know.
Love makes all things look beautiful.
When you're in-love, the world is more colorful, much much brighter and a happier place to live in. Your afterglow reflects in everything that you do and in the people around you. I can't explain it either, this generally happy fortitude makes you want to do nice things to other people and your work becomes more and more inspired. See, when love is in our lives, it really is a good thing.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
There's nothing like missing someone so much and making each moment count.
You learn to compromise.
Compromising doesn't mean settling for something that you don't want but learning to not put your needs first before the relationship. When you agree upon something, it's a silent message telling each other that your relationship is more important than a petty squabble.
There are no simply no rules.
When you're in love, all the rules you have heard about and stood by will simply fly out of the window. It's a learning progress, you will be surprised at how many rules you'd have to bend and break for love. Of course, you'll understand this, when you're deep in it.
Trust is very important.
I read somewhere that it only takes a few seconds to break someone's trust and a lifetime to regain it. Once its broken, it's almost next to impossible to get it whole again.
Be silly and corny and proud of it.
I was watching a movie earlier this morning, a rerun of a romantic comedy. "If you don't want to sound stupid, then you don't deserve to be in-love." That's what the female lead said, and she's right. Loving someone is something to be proud about, it’s a shame if you have to hide it.
All the sacrifices are worth it.
Love isn't love without sacrifice. Other people might have to give up more than most ever will in their entire lifetime but it doesn't make it any less meaningless. When it is done for love, you'll know that they're worth it.